We are human beings, and we are a human organization. The business of education is about people -- their learning, growth, and development. We are intended to be, and must be, in relationship with each other. Solid, trusting relationships must be established for progress to be made.
The first piece of relationships is love (sincere care and concern for others and treating people with kindness). This means treating people with dignity, class, and respect. MPLSD will be a place where people are loved. To fall short of this mark does not meet the standard toward which we are striving, and we must work to improve.
Loving people does not mean there is always agreement or that “anything goes.” There are standards, norms, and expectations for behavior. Smart, reasonable, and rational people will sometimes disagree with each other. Intelligent, thoughtful people discuss ideas. Disagreements are addressed through civil, respectful dialogue. Just because two people do not see a matter in the same way, and disagree, does not mean they do not care about (i.e., love) each other.
A second piece of relationships is trust. Trust is both earned and given. We build trust by following through on what we say we will do when we say we will do it and acting with integrity. Part of trust is that we presume positive intentions. Sometimes people say or do things we do not understand or may have questions about. In those scenarios, when appropriate, we strive to ask about things in non-threatening ways to help us understand (e.g., I noticed this … can you help me to understand why this occurred?) Part of earning trust is being honest.
A third piece of relationships is accountability. We should be able to give an accounting (i.e., an explanation) for what we did and why we did it. We are responsible for the decisions we make and the outcomes they produce. Poor decisions lead to poor outcomes, poor results, and poor consequences. Though no one wants poor outcomes, poor results, and poor consequences, wise and reflective people realize this is how we learn and grow.
Another piece of relationships is forgiveness. Everyone makes mistakes. Forgiveness does not mean that consequences necessarily get cancelled. Rather, forgiveness means that once justice has been administered, the parties move forward in peace and civility and without ill-will.